Forgot to journal a couple of what seem like interesting things to note...

1) W came back from her parents' house the night she was supposed to discuss moving in with them and said she wasn't ready to discuss what they had talked about. I said that was fine and left it at that.

2) She called me on the way home from work last night and asked if I wanted to join her for a drink at the local pub since she had to work late and we weren't able to have our usual date night (I said sure, we had a great time).

3) A friend of hers had stepped way out of line (in both my and W's opinion) and texted me about our sitch a little while back. I didn't make too big a stink about it, but did make it clear I didn't like it. W had assumed that meant Friend was persona non grata now as far as I was concerned. W went to hang out with her and I asked her to make sure Friend knew there weren't any hard feelings. W was pleasantly taken aback and said how nice she thought that was, because Friend is an important person to her and Friend really wants to be a part of "us".

4) W and I were watching an episode of "Louie" last night, and he made a joke about how you know you really love somebody when you can share your most deepest darkest inner racism with them. W turned to me and smiled and said "Can I tell you my deepest darkest inner racism? I really want to." I said "sure" and we both laughed.

So... not taking anything for more than it's worth, just face value. But these all seem more positive than not...


H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14