Why? Because the man started breaking up with you two years ago, moved you out of his home about a year and a half ago, and you have about 3000 posts worth of threads demonstrating how you are clinging to the shreds of the relationship in hopes that it returns better than ever. Leaving your stuff in his house on the pretext of convenience and saving money is refusing to be independent and looks like using your stuff as a means of staying connected to him. It's the opposite of dropping the rope. You've come too far in life to be dependent on the storage space of an XBF, it's time to stand on your own two feet. In my opinion.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
