One thing that I want you to see with the direction that we are trying to take you in...is how you interact with others. Because it really DOES shine through...
You appear angry and defensive, and you explain yourself a LOT...
When it isn't actually necessary, here, and in life...
It makes you appear lack confidence in yourself....
Most of the people that are posting to you, "get it" , and understand you very well, and understand the circumstances very well.
The humor ^^^ , wasn't lost on me, and I knew what you were doing, and I expected you to explain yourself...
When you do that, it tells me that you are very unsure of yourself internally....
Was that always the case with you ???
Did you drag that into the marriage ???
It isn't always about the tangible things that we bring into the marriages, it is usually the things that we don't see, that affects them so greatly...
Not everything is an attack on your values and life...
And the more that you can focus on yourself, the less that the crazy will follow you around...
