Oh, I thought by showing her that what her H was doing was kinda normal(is that the right word??)for MLCers it might help her. I remember thinking I was the ONLY person having to put up with what my S was doing and thinking it was only her or it must be me. Wasn't complaining, I was trying to commiserate with fellow LBS! I know it helped me to know I wasn't the only one seeing and hearing the crazy stuff I was (and still am). :-)