She said your like this because your f'd in the head, I carried on saying im not doing it for you im doing it for me and not to get you back, she was over talking me and was saying the book wont tell you why this happened you did this..
Better. I've extracted this part from your post to highlight a validation opportunity that you missed. She said "you're f*cked in the head" and you defended yourself. Can you tell us what you should have said? Hint: Wonka has posted a thread on this today. It's worth having a look.
Wonkas post was amazing so much to pick on and learn. Well I have found this to be a good fit perhaps?
"I can see you are really uncomfortable about this"
@mrbond - if I kicked her out of bed she would have kicked me out the house.. I can tell her not to disrespect me because when she got into bed she said I dont need this negativity from a dickhead.. shes so horrible.
I want to get her to respect me but I feel if I kicked her out the bed then we are on the bad side again.. cant I apologise instead and say im sorry you feel that way I guess I should have used more maturity back then so you wouldnt think that of me now.. I guess I cant fix what I didnt do yesterday but im trying to do what I need to today..?
Yh reviewing back says I aint got balls.. still ill post it to get your oppinion. Damn.
