Is there abuse in your W's history.

I think there's hormonal stuff at play but the first question that came to my mind was "Where's her abuser?"

(I just quickly skimmed the previous posts so you may have addressed this)

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss