Continuing my DB'ing journey...

[woundedfool]

I need advice. I found out for a fact he was seeing 18 year old before he left. I have texts he sent to friends saying that she told him he didn't deserve to be treated the way I treated him and that he deserved to be loved and respected and appreciated. So basically she was in his ear before he left our home. Not that he isn't at fault.

As I mention above, he did have some reasonable gripes about respect and appreciation. Try the 180 I suggest about showing appreciation.

I am thinking of writing a letter to let him know I am aware of the things he did while we were still living under the same roof as husband and wife. Any advice is appreciated

I will first say, DO NOT SEND A LETTER!

But I will also ask you: what do you hope to accomplish by sending one?

Plus, as I mention above... ABSOLUTELY share this info with your attorney, this can potentially help during the settlement process. FYI: IANAL