One more thing I forgot to really address....
My intent for asking what people might think about or have input on, someone looking back after a period of time... And if there may be any other things to direct my attention to as possible things to look for or that might happen down the road.
Just trying to get a temperature check or a barometer check if you will...

It seems I have asked a number of men and ladies both single and involved and/or married, and about 100% say that that would indicate that the person is definitely not as involved as they want to lead you to believe... Because you have to purposely go in and change that block to unblock for the purposes of viewing and to be viewed by the person you have blocked.
Which is sort of odd for someone who has said that they wanted to completely move on.....
But the strangest thing of all is that this came at the end of a string of very heartfelt prayers over the weekend prior to this change... And discovery
True what they say God has his own way of moving things along.

My concern was does going dark work better in this case or should I leave a little room for that curiosity to grow even more?


M 52
W 40
D 15 (step)
S 12 (step)
Married 7, together almost 8
Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..."
BD final 8/22/12