Hi just caught up on your thread. You do have a ton on your plate. Good luck! I have really come to believe that every thing will always work out. One way or the other it will work out. (Funny how my h was always trying to get me to understand that and it took him leaving for me to get it)

I am glad you found an opportunity to talk to your boys. Now you can all be emotional support for each other.

My ss15 would say "so many feels" it wouldn't be life without the feels.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15