Hi I'm new, I hope I won't be a burden on you guys

[Barrybran]

She said your like this because your f'd in the head, I carried on saying im not doing it for you im doing it for me and not to get you back, she was over talking me and was saying the book wont tell you why this happened you did this..

Better. I've extracted this part from your post to highlight a validation opportunity that you missed. She said "you're f*cked in the head" and you defended yourself. Can you tell us what you should have said? Hint: Wonka has posted a thread on this today. It's worth having a look.