Betsey,
You are so right about major life events causing problems. My mess started when H's mother died, my dad had the start of a brain tumor which resulted in craziness on his part, and H's sister moved back to town. Anyone of these events could have been dealt with, but not all within a few months period.

You have a wonderful attitude, you will get through this with flying colors.
Hugs,
Pattie


When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.