[BrightFuture]

Well, got another text from H today informing me that he sent an e-mail with the details regarding the software. Then he asked “Is there a visa statement there. It is due on the XXth and I don’t have a copy.” I replied back thanking him for the info and told him and I probably already paid the visa and it should be recorded in QB. He sent another text telling me that he forgot how to reconcile the accounts in QB (Quick Books) and that he will send me updated file tomorrow.

I checked my e-mail later and there were a few e-mails from him with the details of a QB upgrade that he apparently purchased.

OK, I’m going to do some analysis here. Just for the sake of it. If he knows that the visa bill is due on a certain date, he was checking it online and should've seen that the payment has been already applied. He can also see the payment check in QB. If he could figure out how to purchase the upgrade, he definitely can figure out about the payment. Is he just playing dumb?

Then this sentence “Is there a visa statement there”… I guess he didn’t want to say “in the house” and he didn’t want to say “in your house”. So, my house is kind of a nameless place. My first impression was that he didn’t want to point out that it is indeed my house. I know, sounds like some sophisticated analysis here, but I trust my intuition on this. When he wanted to point out that it was my house, or my bedroom, etc., he just said that.

So, tomorrow he is going to send me a file. I’m just curious what’s next. What other stuff he will want to contact me about. I’m nice about responding, but I really would not mind him to go away for a while. It doesn’t bother me as much anymore, I mean these contacts. I realized that all my reactions were because I still wanted to have some control over things. I’m slowly letting it go.