Yep. A pass is *absolutely* warranted!!!

Just remember the pursuit/distance dance, twinmom. The man who is causing your pain likely isn't the one who will comfort you ... at least not when YOU want him to.

twinmom, I admire your strength and courage. I only went 4 months through my pregnancy with S8 without H, and he was back when I was 5 months pregnant, so he was "all in" during our birth/recovery.

I think you are remarkable for what you've endured. And when it comes to your strength, I think we ain't seen nothin' yet.

Take care of YOU and ALL those babies. We're behind you and thinking of you!!!


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014