In the middle of insisting that "this isn't what he wants" my H was also talking about refinishing our hardwood floors and adding a screen porch to the house. He's lost and doesn't appear to realize that what he is doing is real.
I don't know if you should go to the open house or not, but I lean towards not. This is because *in my case* it reinforces the "not real" quality and reduces the bite of natural consequences. You seem to know what you're doing so I'll just back you on the crazy-making quality of these spouses and tell you I'm cheering for you. Best!
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
