Wife is Continuing Affair-When Do I Start LRT? II

[PeterV2]

Dev, I think that's a good sign asking if you want to go to the open house. It seems to indicate that in the back of her mind she is still think of the two of you as a viable couple but in her chemically induced state of confusion nothing makes sense. Remember what they say, that affairs don't last. After six months his warts start appearing and the WAW starts seeing and feeling the insanity of it all.
I would suggest that you two go to the open house, but from your point of view, just look. Nod and say hmmm. But don't take her bait on any conversation. Like, no comments. Just let her feel the void on your side. I think that her seeing a new house, read: new possibilities, new life, new marital relationship, may give her some food for thought. You never know what triggers someone to wake up. Just a thought. I don't think it could hurt the situation. Although astronauts say, there's no situation so bad that you can't make it worse, I don't think that applies here.