Thanks, Thornton. Yes, he does jump around quite a bit. I am constantly reminding myself that it means nothing. He's still talking with his "just a friend" so I don't want him back under those circumstances. Sometimes I kick myself for moving because you're not "supposed to" under DB, but I still believe it's what I need to do to feel comfortable and live my life in a better way. It became too hard to live as roommates, knowing how he felt about me. I'll leave him to his quest for happiness - always looking for something better, or the next thing, without appreciating and working with what's in front him. Meanwhile, I'll get to focus on ME! smile and darnit, if I want to eat cereal for breakfast, I can do it and no one will be complaining that they need "meat and potatoes"!


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final