Not being up for a battle is your decision based on your thoughts, driving your course of action. He's only driving his own bus, not yours. You take in information, interpret it, and decide on actions as an independent individual. Waiting for him, walking on eggshells hoping it improves your financial outcome, those are choices you make and can own.
You don't have to like what he's doing, but your moves are your own to choose based on what you believe and think. He is not blocking you. You are making decisions, own them.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
