busting, I have been thinking about some of what you are posting. it is so confusing when they are nice and normal one minute and seem not to care the next. We wait so patiently. Of course, we know they are confused. one thing you mentioned was moving to where he is only if it meant being togather as a family again.... As much as I would like my h to come back, I am beginning to see how much work that too will take. At this point I do not believe h is coming back for the kids or me. In fact, he is moving to another state in Sept. He is now very involved in his job, his life. would you go to where he is if he is not 100 percent in? I know what we want for our kids- an intact family. I would do just about anything to have that. Our h's have to decide that is what they want... Don't mean to discourage you. just food for thought. You and your h seem to have some good positive interactions. Take care friend. I am praying for the best for all of us.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13