Today was HORRIBLE! If something could go wrong it did. I want to tell my mother never to enter my home again and I made the mistake of calling H to vent.

Let's just go with list format....

Twins have diarrhea because my mom gave them Chinese food yesterday (I don't give them much junk food at all)
D2 WANTS to sit in the potty AFTER she has already gone, I can't physically squat down in there to sit with her

I left my (New) van yesterday so my mom could pick up the older boys from school with the twins. I get in the van today and the gas light is on (where did she go, I had 3/4 of a tank)
There is a huge dent in the front bumper from her pulling too far into the garage and hitting the fridge I have out there. Got estimate of $700 to repair

My mom put the dishes in the dishwasher away but instead of putting the plastic containers away the way I keep them she just shoved everything in the cabinet. I am only 5ft tall so hard for me to reach top shelf. I tried to get a container this evening and everything fell out hitting me in the head and I had to spend time/energy redoing everything that fell out.

I left my debit card in case of emergency, I guess $35 worth of Chinese food when I have lots in the fridge/freezer is considered an emergency.

She didn't make S13 study for a test today which he BOMBED (a 77 which is a very low C) which brought his English grade down to a 90.6 which is a B instead of the A he had. I am disappointed in both S13 and my mom

I made the mistake of calling H to vent about a few of these things, he has been ok with conversations about this kind of stuff yesterday so.......... well he seemed COLD/almost angry. Really not the mood he had left this morning in so I apologized for calling, said it was a mistake and bye. I don't know what I did wrong :-(

The twins have been DEMANDING tonight and I am just overwhelmed.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction