Thanks for the suggestions. I have documentation from day 1. My therapist said to journal as it helps. On the other site it has been suggested he has more than mlc. I know there is something mental, bit he stopped IC. Thankfully people in church, friends, and family have been very helpful. My lawyer has also been great, and this site. I cannot believe there still are great people out there. Too bad I married a lemon. Oh well. It has taught me a lot. I now know I am not to blame for his actions. He is the wrong one. I did nothing to deserve this treatment.