Oh and the thing about us not "knowing" your W, you don't either if you're posting here. All of our spouses weren't the same like when we first got M'd. She changed just as much as you had. You have to figure out how to interact with this "new" W of yours.
I only meant to suggest that 5 seconds with her and anyone would be convinced of a lot of things, such as her being outgoing, happy, free-spirited. I don't mean to insult anyone, not at all, I just mean to say she's more of a joy than I think could come across here. She's great. We stopped having sex and by now I think it's from something neither of us did and I came here looking for help, that's all.
