"It's not JUST about sex, but you're saying I wouldn't love her if she couldn't have sex. She needs me to mow the lawn, but if I couldn't I'm sure she would still love me."

No. Again you're not listening. I said that M is more than just sex (again, I didn't say it wasn't important, just that it's more than just sex). And you said in your post that you've stayed in bad relationships that had great sex. Now you have the opposite.

She might not want to talk to you about it because she's uncomfortable about it. There's only so much you can do on your end. You can't keep trying to control her or force her to face something she's not ready to. Slowly build the trust between you and she may slowly open up.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER