Hi, I'm new here and looking for advice and support. Seven weeks ago, my husband blindsided me by telling me that he hadn't been happy in a long time, was having an affair, and wanted to separate. I insisted on counseling instead of separation, and we have been a few times together. We have three kids at home who are unaware of any issue between us. I have read DB, but I'm a little lost as to what to do next. I just never thought I'd be in this position, totally didn't see it coming.
