Danger, Will Robinson! Make sure you run this by your attorney (I know I don't even have to say that LOL).
Here in Colorado, I was told at least a dozen times that I better think good and hard about maintenance. (I elected not to take it.) They told me that I could never come back for it once I agreed to waive it. I believe most states have this policy, and the only funding source that can be revisited is child support.
I totally agree with you that there should be no way in HELL that you would ever have to pay him maintenance. WTF? What kind of guy would take it unless you were Elizabeth Taylor and your H was your construction worker BF? Which clearly you are not in that category.
Geez, the more I read about your H the more I want to tell him to frickin' man up. This dude has some serious perception issues. What a douche bag.
Go you!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
