Spiff do you want her back? if so there is a but load of great info here...read sandys 37 rules...very good road map. I think by removing your self from the game of chicken would be a good start.


Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14