Under the advice of her IC W is flying across the country to be with her friend for a while to gain some clarity. From what she tells me her IC thinks OM is not good for her and that W likes being in a co-dependent relationship and she needs some time away from OM. IC told her that he felt like keeping her as a inpatient for 72 hours, but he doesn't think that's long enough. Good Lord.
Where I fit into this equation I'm not sure. She probably thinks I'm just her backup. I expressed to her last night that I'm not getting much out of this relationship and I need to find somebody else. She responded "No, you don't".
If she does actually follow through with this, and stay away for 3-4 weeks and break it off with OM permanently then at the very least I could be friends with her and I'll respect her.... I just don't think I've got anything left in the tank to reconcile with her.
Divorce is still proceeding... we're about 45 days away from it being finalized. Last night she goes "Maybe I won't sign".. to hold up the divorce I guess.
