Thornton...thanks for the reply...I read it a lot, hard to follow all of them but with discipline im doing ok.

Grey we are dammed if we do and dammed if we don't..seems like the idea is to just be indifferent and avoid all conflicts..easier said than done..lol

Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14