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she told me what she says in anger isn't what she actually means or wants, and that this has been hard on her and she's lashed out at me in anger.

Surely this is understandable as you did the same thing.

Did you apologize to her for your emotional explosion?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss