Mer- That answered my question and clarified things perfectly for me. I wondered where the hard stuff was supposed to go with Bob - you can't build a marriage on always gritting your teeth andsmiling, right? Cuz I can see myself drifting into the WAS camp after a few years of pretending I was completely. I guess it's really a question of priorities - which things are important enough to stand up for yourself, and what sitch's is it okay to let things slide and be tolerant. I don't think there is any one answer to that question. Like you said, Mere, I think it depends on the sitch. Thanks for the clarification, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
