Here's another question for you. When I call to speak to my kids when they are with my W her parents often answer the phone. When they do I don't attempt to make any small talk, I just ask to speak to my kids. Should I attempt to engage in any small talk with her parents?
Before this all happened, anytime her parents would have called our place I would have talked to them a bit. Obviously a lot has changed since then so should I still try to talk to her parents a bit (ask about the weather, how they are doing etc) or just leave it at asking to talk to my kids?
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS