well here is an update....hope someone will answer soon...apparently she is struggling on her own...the more she struggles the madder at me she gets...she is telling people that she is a changed women and now what she wants is to buy nice things, she is becoming someone she used to despise..materialistic...she wants to do botox and lift her breasts...on a positive note...ive been doing last resort on her, and I had one small victory, we have been texting eachother every couple of days concerning our daughters so I decided to throw a little test at her and I ended a text with good morning...she responded with good morning and a happy face, so I left it at that...then 1 minute later she texted me again concerning our daughters uniform for school that day(because I had them at my dads with me) she knew what the uniform was because she told me the day before what she had to wear...so Im taking this as a very tiny victory...anyone care to chime in?
Me: 42 W: 39 D: 2 age 6 and 9 D-Day: Dec 29 13 Seperated: 3/20/14 Mediation retainer : 5/20/14 She filed: 06/25/14