Wonka, I understood what you said and took it as "humor". People need to tread lightly until they find a forum that they would be comfortable in. They need to visit the forums, read some of the posting and then determine if that is the forum for them.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
