Kyle,

Sorry to find you here but I truly believe you are in the right place. The sooner you start the process the better. If you're getting mixed signals I would err on the side of caution. Don't get lulled into a false sense of security because she acts loving towards you. I think most WAW's still having feelings for their husbands but I would agree with the advice to DETACH right now. That will help insulate you from the ups and downs of her moods and actions. Be patient and most of all good luck.


Me - 44
Her - 35
S - 6
D - 8
Married - 8
Together - 11
Separated - 5/17/2014
Divorce filed - 6/3/2014