KGirl - Movin' On and Out!

[Georgiabelle]

K Girl,

I know those feelings all too well. I am not saying your h will do this , however my h was having an EA with a coworker. He said when moving out that he "just wanted to be alone" and that he "wanted to spend this time focusing being a better father." 3 weeks later he was dating a college student (not the one he was having an EA) who offered to rescue him after a very pathetic Twitter breakdown. I'm not sure how that enhances one's role as a father and like you, I'm finding it difficult to even see how we could rebuild to even a * friendly * R.

I want to be honest- I don't think I've transformed myself drastically. I've recognized things I need to work on, have made changes and continue to look at myself and what can make my life better. We are all a work in progress. I do think there are some people who simply are unable to take a look at themselves. Why? It's too painful and it's much easier to blame others than do the work. Start a new R and there won't be any issues.....until there are.

Try not to focus on whether you could trust your h. You will know when you do or don't want that. And regardless of what you choose, you really will be fine.

It's exciting about your new place. I think you are doing well:-)