WH, I really had to smile - what is it with these guys - my xh also could not (and still cannot) resist criticising my lawyer - post divorce he even wrote to her pointing out some things he believed she had done incorrectly. Really? She thought it was hilarious. His lawyer is perfect, of course.

Pinata sounds nice!

Hang in there - these guys are cuckoo, and not capable of being anyone's friend. I have discovered that they are only nice when they want something, as a rule.