Claire-DB is worth it... I'm pretty sure!

[rayzzz]

Sorry you are going through this. going dark and this 180 thing is tricky. I am in the same place where I give my WAW so much space and validate and let her start conversations. i did just start these past two weeks but she is frustrated cause I am not the loud mouth chatterbox I used to be. I too which I could just cut out my heart and stop having these feelings for her. if you are starting to get to that numb place then I kind of envy you if you can relate. it is so so hard to put so much energy into db. so glad you have reaped some improvements to be a super fine attractive because you are healthy---woman. sorry he doessnt notice that but I do know as a man he does miss you sometimes guaranteed!...you cant spend that much married time without some attachment... and thinks about all the validating things you say to him when he is driving home or alone with his thoughts. I dont have an answer but keep GALing and being the beauty he would long to rescue. cheering you on