Thanks, hope. It is so nice to come here and have people who understand. People I know in the real world just say things like "He's a d-bag, why don't you just D him yourself, you'll never be able to trust him again, he's not worth it, forget him" etc. etc. It's just not that simple. Especially when he hasn't done anything that has clearly crossed into heinous/unforgiveable territory (for me anyway).
I read an article today about letting go and this quote was in there. Coincidentally when I "liked" the article on fbook, my sister posted that same quote to my wall. It's going to be my new mantra:
“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.” ~ Joseph Campbell
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final