Ok so LOOOOOOOONG night and day. Dr on call last night says come in even contractions are 3 min apart and have this baby. Contractions are random all night (painful but would be 4 min apart for almost 45 min then go to 25 min apart) bleeding this morning so I call back and they say go in and get cervix checked and baby monitored. Dr on call when I get there says no way, get that labor stopped......

Ummmmmmm what?! I just spent 16hrs suffering through contractions for you to decide to stop it? Spent most of the day in the hospital with them injecting me with different meds to stop contractions. H was there all day.

While in the hospital I tell him "don't take this the wrong way, oily am NOT being for you back or anything but "this" (labor/pregnancy) [censored] doing it by myself" he said "I know" and seemed almost tired. He really looked like something was wrong for about 30 min so I finally asked if he wanted me to not talk to him. He said no, I was fine.

He brings me home, does some laundry. Plays with the kids and puts them to bed. Then waters my flowers and tells me "I'll be back later" huh? What?

He said he doesn't want to me to have to get up in the middle of the night if one of the twins wakes up.

Question is............. OW is ok with H staying the night at my house????? No he is NOT sleeping in my bed but is she crazy? I would not be ok with it if I were her!


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction