Scooby,
We have the Divorce Forum on this web site and it's quite good. You might want to go over and check it out.

I'm glad the new job is going to work. Even though it's less pay, at least they are will to pay for some of your education.

I'm sorry about him pushing for the divorce, but many of them do that. One day, hopefully, he will wake up and realize what he's lost....but until then...continue moving forward and live your life to the fullest.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.