I can see where you feel you haven't done "Plan A" long enough for her to "see your changes." I honestly don't know enough about your sitch to know if that's true or not, Oxford.
The problem, however, is once she went "in-your-face" with her affair, if you continue to Plan A her, she will lose all respect -- and therefore attraction, and therefore LOVE -- for you.
Exposed affairs -- when the betrayed spouse knows, and the wayward spouse KNOWS that you know, and you even DISCUSS it -- changes the dynamics of the whole damned thing.
Starsky
I know the only issue is someone posted her on Cheaterville etc. She will accuse me.
She will say I did it And now it is affecting her job...she will either leave or loose her high paying job...
IT WILL CAUSE HER TO leave HER FAMILY...
Does anyone know how to get this stuff removed?
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W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
