Stumps, thats a tough one. well done on all that you can do. I am in the very exact situation. She said she's done and you can change all you want but it wont change how i feel....exhausted and no love. Sandi2 said she was done and came around. Others say it happens here. Keep being the warrior. and i wonder is there is a way that trust can be rebuilt so that she loves you and accepts these changes. My theory is that in the subconcious something shuts down trust wise ...but if it was there before it can be again right? Glad you love yourself and the amazing changes and good fruit out of that. keep at it...maybe the "fake it till you make it" will work for her as well...doing nice things for you. ..it will change her feelings eventually


Me 42 W:35
M: 14yrs T:15yrs
D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs
BD: "I want a D"09/03/14
Sep: 30/06/14

Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.