Tad, here is our story 5 yrs later... MLCer are messed up and oblivious to the pain they cause. Everything is justified in their head.
I got an unexpected call at work this morning. It was my son, crying and calling from school.
I left in a hurry and brought him home. He said him and XH got into a big fight last saturday and Son let everything out. Everything he had inside. It went on from midnight to 3:30 am.
XH took son s phone away so son couldn t reach out to anyone.
OW was beside Xh and was telling him not to listen to son so yes, she was
also told to mind her business, she had NO CLUE who Xh is and what he has put us through.There is ALOTTTT of things she is unaware of and to stay out of it..
This fight ended by Xh shoving son in a wall..
Son has been keeping away from them since.

BIG discussion coming up tonight.. xh hasn t made contact yet i don t expect him to do so for a while