What is my Next Move?

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Thanks for any advice I am willing to try anything...it's just that a full on plan b might not be feasible at this point.

Why not?

I now know what I did to screw up my wife and my marriage. I really figured out Plan A three or four days before she left. All she did was thank me for remaining calm..

I feel like I need to stay in Plan A once she returns, and then if she leaves agin go dark, plan B etc.

WE WERE Drawing up a separation agreement before she left...it was not finished...

If I leave we are still,going to have to meet 1:1 and with the attorneys to finalize everything.

If I do that while staying in Plan A and then do B if she leaves again...then everything will
Be all set..and she will have been exposed to the real me...


Who knows maybe by later this week with no contact while she's away I will change my tune and just be done with it all..