It's more to do with letting her know that I can finally see what she was going through in hindsight, now that the anger and hurt have subsided in me. I was under stress and grieving at the time this happened, then as my wife left she saw nothing but hurt and anger from me. I haven't had a clear head and heart in a while to see that.
She did try to express her feelings from that time recently, but in my brooding state I saw it as little more than justification for her actions.
I just want peace for both of us. Regardless of whether reconciliation is in our future.
I think this is among the healthiest and perhaps bravest things I've read here in awhile.
Good for you. Like you said, regardless of outcome, you want some peace for both of you.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
