Well I did it. I've no idea if she has read it yet. The one I gave her was a little different to the one I posted. Less doormat, more honest and realistic. We got along just fine. No tension. I could tell she was a little taken aback by how much more confident, relaxed and the change in my appearance.
Whatever happens, I am honestly happy to have peace now.
Will post any updates if there are any.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013 Bomb drop: Mid March 2013 Separation: Mid April 2013 (I fought for marriage) Filed for Divorce: April 2014 Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014