The List

I'm going to suggest where ALL your mental effort should be placed at the moment, imo.

-Finding a lawyer check
-Finding a job/income
-Asking parents to help with the finances
-Your daughters
-Getting your own checking account.

You need to focus man... on what NEEDS to be done in reality, laser sharp focus... RIGHT THE HECK NOW... your daughters are too important to be spinning wheels and energy elsewhere.

Your W and FIL are NOT on the above list.

What steps need to be taken to accomplish the above?
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What's next, Matt?