I wish you the best soldier. No matter the tool, I think improving ourselves is the focus. I'll check out Controlling People as I'm sure it could help me too.
I'll post the quote I put in my first post on your thread from my tool: "No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path." - Buddha
And it seems you've found your path.
me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14