What is my Next Move?

[indigo1]

I honestly don't know how you do it Oxford. W is in another country with OM and you sit there and take it. I guess to each their own. You are getting some good advise here from these people. There is no way your W can respect you the way you let her walk all over you. I think it really is time for you to make a stand here and be a strong man. I'm not trying to be rude, I have been following your situation and feel obligated to comment on it.