Some of the comments you replied to aren't things I wrote although some still apply to me. I think looking back I was a WAS and I did have a computer game addiction and ultimately neglected her. She has never admitted any wrong doing on her part to me but has admitted to a mutual friend. I have a spy so to speak.
I do appreciate the reply and I hope I can continue to get more information and advice in the future on how to proceed.
I am also changing for me. Yesterday was rough but I plan to continue to do job related requirements for promotions. And also to not purchase any alcohol for a while.
I will consider staying the divorce papers, or destroying them if that isn't the same thing. Time will tell me what is best.
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
