Roller coaster and then some

[daring]

So after last night I definitely feel like he is cycling back to a-hole stage. He is bring very controlling with our two teenage boys and in my opinion projecting his own issues into them. My oldest can handle it- he just blows him off. But S16 is also going through his own depression and I feel so bad seeing how the conversations with his dad effect him. I talked with S16 some last night and then I texted H with some thoughts on it all. He totally ignored me, but I know he had his phone b/c our daughter was texting him and he was actively responding.

I am so angry and hurt right now. I dont even want to work on the R, I just want him to get his $hi¥ together! He's such a good dad, I wish he could see where he is hurting them.....